Firstly, I don’t believe that you can advise people who don’t want to listen – in order for advice to be effective, the other party has to be open to receiving advice. often, this doesn’t happen until something dramatic / bad / life-changing happens.
Secondly, if the person is open to receiving advice already, then well, say it as it is! True, the tactic used by the author is more gentle and more persuasive, but I think in the midst of her verbosity, something has been lost already. 😛
Short and sweet (not like this message), okay? 😀
I actually disagree with that.
Firstly, I don’t believe that you can advise people who don’t want to listen – in order for advice to be effective, the other party has to be open to receiving advice. often, this doesn’t happen until something dramatic / bad / life-changing happens.
Secondly, if the person is open to receiving advice already, then well, say it as it is! True, the tactic used by the author is more gentle and more persuasive, but I think in the midst of her verbosity, something has been lost already. 😛
Short and sweet (not like this message), okay? 😀
😀 oki, Short n Sweet.
Lub u dapm <- short? 😀 avn